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Spotting the Signs: How to Identify a Narcissist in Your Life



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 Narcissistic Personality disorder is a mental health condition that may be caused by environmental factors during childhood or genetics. Generally, this disorder is centered around being self-involved and having an idea of extreme self-importance. This personality disorder is unique in that it mostly affects those around them rather than the person with the disorder. If you suspect someone around you might have this disorder here are the signs of a Narcissist. 


The Signs of a Narcissist

  1. Acting as though they are superior to others 

The idea that they are superior to others is a large part of this personality disorder. This may be comparing each other during shared hobbies or just how they are doing in life. 


  1. Lack of empathy 

With the sense of superiority, this makes it very difficult for narcissists to have empathy for others as they do not view them as on the same level as them. This may manifest as having little patience for others when discussing their issues. 


  1. Need for admiration

Narcissists want to be validated in their belief that they are superior which can cause turmoil when others don’t validate this belief. 


  1. Arrogant or haughty behavior 

Sometimes a narcissist's self-importance will manifest through arrogant behavior.


  1. Entitled

Since a large part of having Narcissistic personality disorder involves believing you are superior to others entitlement goes hand in hand with this. They will feel they deserve certain things over others as they are “better” than them. This can include things such as promotions, awards, and even relationships. 


  1. Manipulative 

Narcissists will feel the need to control those around them, and they do this through manipulation. They can do this in a variety of ways such as by gaslighting. 


  1. Envy 

With the inherent belief that narcissists are superior to others when others do better than them, they will feel an overwhelming feeling of envy. 


  1. The belief that others are envious 

With the inherent belief that they are better than others, they will feel as though others must be jealous of them. 


  1. Fantasies of perfection and superiority 

Narcissists may imagine themselves as having no flaws and being better than those around them. 


While it's possible to have a relationship with a narcissist, it's crucial to prioritize your mental health. If someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is negatively impacting your well-being, don't hesitate to seek help. Support is available, whether it's through friends, family, or professional guidance. Setting boundaries, limiting interactions, or even distancing yourself from the person might be necessary steps. Therapy can also provide valuable tools for recognizing when to walk away and help you develop coping strategies to manage any trauma. If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of a narcissist, reach out to Lifecare Wellness Counseling and schedule an appointment.



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